tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4333405565931840271.post7327540824725492874..comments2024-01-02T23:04:02.489-08:00Comments on The Narcissist's Child: The AppleSweet Violethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08321094659806702782noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4333405565931840271.post-19184373302114483152018-04-28T00:14:48.689-07:002018-04-28T00:14:48.689-07:00Her ability to switch in an instant from vicious t...Her ability to switch in an instant from vicious to sweet when the phone rings is just like my mother. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4333405565931840271.post-78543058622652885342015-12-17T23:48:30.476-08:002015-12-17T23:48:30.476-08:00We never had a relationship. He was her flying mon...We never had a relationship. He was her flying monkey and helped her steal and then conceal my children for 8 years. There is no relationship after that.Sweet Violethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08321094659806702782noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4333405565931840271.post-49880807996983277132015-12-17T23:46:56.371-08:002015-12-17T23:46:56.371-08:00We haven't seen each other since our grandmoth...We haven't seen each other since our grandmother's funeral in 1994 and haven't spoken to each other since our NM's death in 1998. Family tales about him point to him being just as big a narc as our NM. The only thing he was aware of was that she "could be vindictive" (his words in our last conversation" but since she gave him half of her estate and my daughter the other half, he didn't care.<br /><br />And so it goes with narcissists and golden children...and the scapegoats.Sweet Violethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08321094659806702782noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4333405565931840271.post-87189739884655930142015-12-17T14:27:48.832-08:002015-12-17T14:27:48.832-08:00Just wondering what your relationship is or was wi...Just wondering what your relationship is or was with your brother as you became adults? Did he ever know what she "was"? KKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14154963685665499208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4333405565931840271.post-37757292276691197692015-12-17T14:25:30.569-08:002015-12-17T14:25:30.569-08:00What is or was your relationship like with your br...What is or was your relationship like with your brother as you became adults? Was he aware of "what" she was? Sorry your daughter turned out similar to your mom. I hope none of my kids take after my NMom. Thanks for this blog, you are a very talented writer.KKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14154963685665499208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4333405565931840271.post-71241997545662358882013-10-03T21:03:37.513-07:002013-10-03T21:03:37.513-07:00sorry to hear about your daughter turning out the ...sorry to hear about your daughter turning out the wrong way. She has been infected. My son too was, i am exorcising him. Just keep putting them down everytime they commit a mistake, keep them out of their grandparents reach. Your NM has died a classical narcissistic death of abandonment with the none to discover her corpse.osirisisishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04223942638757578676noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4333405565931840271.post-20898420811454285702013-10-03T01:21:34.606-07:002013-10-03T01:21:34.606-07:00She died alone in an apartment in Las Vegas in the...She died alone in an apartment in Las Vegas in the summer and was not found until her landlord came to see why she had not paid her rent. She had been dead for several days. She died of heart failure just 4 years after having a quintuple bypass because she was so arrogant, she thought she knew more than her doctor: she wouldn't stop smoking, stop eating fatty meats, or take her meds properly (she thought to save money by taking half the prescribed dose, even though she had inherited a large sum of money from her mother). My reaction was to mourn the loss of hope that some day she would "wake up" and be my real mother. That lasted about a day. I refused to go to her memorial service because I didn't trust myself not to jump up and tell the truth when other people white washed her memory in their eulogies. The inheritance? Half to my GC brother, the other half to my daughter, who sucked up to her grandmother in her last years, being nice to her face but saying rude things about her to others, including me. NM specifically disinherited me and my two sons, saying in the will "for reasons they already know." This was bullshit because neither of my sons had any idea why they were disinherited...my NM had never even met the younger one...she refused every invitation I ever extended to her to meet him and when she died, he was in his 20s. The only think I can even imagine is that my daughter told my NM things to make her disinherit the boys so she could get it all. She is very much like my mother, I am sad to say.Sweet Violethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08321094659806702782noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4333405565931840271.post-38958050691690016032013-10-02T22:59:59.658-07:002013-10-02T22:59:59.658-07:00NMs are know for backstabbing their husbands and s...NMs are know for backstabbing their husbands and screwing around. I am eager to know of your mother's last days, did she die the classic narccistic death owing to dementia. Is there any article detailing the same, and your reaction to it, whether you attended the funeral, how was the inheritance split.??osirisisishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04223942638757578676noreply@blogger.com